So I've learned sometimes it's better to sweep some things under the rug. Not letting them go, just not bringing them up to others anymore. Some things become obsessions and start to control us. We have to learn what is poison in our lives, and if we think it's worth it to keep with us.
Without meaning to we push people away with things were clinging to. That doesn't mean those things aren't important but, if you haven't found any solution it's just better to keep quiet. Possibly by just placing it aside and acting like it's not as big a deal, with time it will actually grow not to be. And by not focusing solely on it anymore maybe other doors will start to open for you to walk through.
Some things yes it's best just to toss, but I won't lie and say that everything should be trashed. Despite what others tell you one day you might be happy you never cut the cords entirely. So with those people when that subject comes up simply fake it, put on a masquerade mask. People can only be pushed so far before they start to fade away from you.
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