What have I done with my life?

    It's true what they say about lessons coming from strange places at times. Because I got taught one recently and it opened my eyes. You see I'm very grateful to be alive, but I feel sometimes like I don't deserve it because what have I done to deserve my extended life? 

    I was watching tv and this show caught exactly what I had been feeling about this woman who got a second chance at a life, and years later people were wanting to know what had she done with her life since she got that fateful chance? And she was embarrassed because honestly she hadn't done anything super special with that second chance. However it ended with her realizing it doesn't matter that she didn't do anything extraordinary with her life, but the fact that she was healthy, living life, and was happy was really all that mattered.

    That hit me so I may not have done anything extraordinary aside from beating the odds with my life yet,  (and I still might go on to do something big one day) but I am happy and I'm living and really that's all that should matter. 

Always something waiting

    Stress, worry, anticipation. Three feelings we have daily whether we care to admit it or not. Right now something is going on in your life that if you could just get past it things will get easier, or even better am I right? I'm just gonna say that lately I've had an revelation and to some it will seem kinda obvious but to others it will seem daunting. There will always be something around the corner to stress or worry about. Getting past this hump will not end that because before you know it you'll be tangled up in a new drama. 

    The simple solution is to just live life and not stress about things as much, hope for the best and dive into your life. Of course it's not that simple when your facing the trials head on, and things are looking grim. I can honestly say I was facing some stuff last year and finally I got past it ending in a good way, and things were good, but now something else has already reared its ugly head lol.

    The point in trying to get is all that stress isn't worth it, don't let it consume your life. Breathe in, breathe out, and just focus on tackling today! Or else you risk surrorcsying from trying to only breathe during the breaks. 

Shrug it off

    I'm not a fan of labels, or judging people, do I do it? Of course I do we all have judged someone at some point. What I mean is I don't like people judging others and trying to define them themselves. Here is a newsflash if it's not your life it doesn't need your opinion. Simple and clean. Words hurt and without meaning it you can do a lot of damage to someone by picking away at someone's personality and hobbies. 

    It takes time but once it finally clicks and you start to ignore other people except for those that matter, and shrug it off your life starts going a lot smoother. There is very limited time on earth so why waste it with negativity from others?