dangers of alone

    You know being alone isn't a bad thing, it's also not what hurts people. In fact everyone needs alone time now and then to relax. In my opinion the damaging side of being alone, is when it comes after being used to not being alone, after trusting people and enjoying each other. To going from talking almost daily to going to no replies at the drop of the hat. Promises once made, now broken.
    The cycle of meeting people, learning about each other, trusting and caring for each other, then disappearing. That cycle plays out in everyones life at some point. However in some cases it happens again, again, and again. The cycle never seeming to break. This leads to doubts forming, trust issues, self esteem issues. For those cases I'm not really sure what can be done, because each time you try to reach out to someone new to make a new friend you take the risk. Really all any of us can do is be hopeful that this new encounter will prosper, and be thankful for the people we already have in our lives, even if we feel like we don't have that many. If you can say you have one person in your life that cares you are blessed.

obstacles? go around them.

    You know lately I've been pretty bored, honestly this past weekend I did nothing productive. It took an old show to remind me of a lesson. You see I was blaming the fact that the people I wanted to hang out with were busy, and I was using that as an excuse to not do anything all weekend. Which in the long run effected no one but myself.
    I was blaming my circumstances for my problems, when I could have done other thing instead. Honestly if you have obstacles blocking your path go around them. Don't just let them become an excuse to give up. So thanks to Sabrina the teenage witch for reminding me of that!