Sometimes I wonder what it would be like to just cut someone out of your life completely, never go to them for anything, or talk to them ever again. Part of me thinks that its possible just grab everything thats yours, and has no connection to that other person then just leave. However, then you notice if you cut this person out, does it mean you have to do the other person, or anyone that they are associated with? Also what if that person is someone you turn to in times of need, can you really get by without their help? Then you have to think why am I cutting this person out of my life? Is it due from anger, someone wronged you, and you just can't stand to be near them anymore due to lack of trust? Is it fear, they are nice most of the time, but when you slip up one time do you cringe while they are flared up? Or is it just because you wanna prove you can do things on your own?
I see both half's to this dilemma, their are good effects as well as bad effects from this kind of decision. And I guess basically it comes down to, how much can you handle, and which scenario would be worse? Sometimes do we not cut the strings just so that we can keep getting by? Therefore using the other person? Also once you cut someone out, its nearly impossible to get/let them back in.
So I guess I'll wait for the storm to pass, and see how much damage just has been done before I decide whether or not to cut the strings.
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