Come and go

    Sometimes I wonder why some people come into our lives while some people disappear. Others become a part of you. Some friendships feel like they will last forever while others end way too fast. I've sadly learned that not every friendship is meant to last forever. However, what does last forever is the pain when that person is gone.

    This can be a hard lesson to learn, and even harder to adapt to once you've learned it. Losing someone is never easy, some are harder than others though. Once you know the pain of losing someone you might start to worry about the people who are left (especially if there's not many).simetimes losing someone can make you a little paranoid. Then you feel that you're losing something really important to you, and that freaks you out more, and then you try to hold on a little too tightly to them. When really you weren't ever losing them to begin with. I know it sounds crazy, (and insanely hard) but sometimes the best thing you can do is give people space. Let them come to you for a change.

    The bottom line is we've all gotta accept that people come and go from our lives, (and it's really hard to accept sometimes) but the people who want to stay will.