Live with, and deal with

    Someone once told me "you can't lose what you never had, you can't keep what's not yours, and you can't hold on to something that doesn't want to stay". That sort of hit me like a slap in the face, while yes it rings true, it's not all black and white, yet when hearing that it kinda is. If your scared of losing someone as in your scared they will leave you, then maybe you never really had them in the first place. It's about trusting in what you have, and not letting things cloud your judgement on the truth. 

   Don't let someone fool you though, just by having doubts doesn't automatically mean there is a problem. Doubts sadly are a last of life that we have to learn to live with and deal with. And while it dosent always work out the way wee hope the phrase " a true friend will always be your friend no matter what may stand between you" rings true too.