Just put your arm around someone

    The simple act of putting your arm around someone out of love, or care can mean so much more to people then you could ever imagine. People around us everyday are going through some darkness, just waiting for someone to come through with a light to pull them out. You never know just who around you is hurting, and they may just be scared to admit that they are wanting a little love.
    It's not gonna hurt you to show some simple actions of kindness, its the little things that sometimes make the biggest impressions (and I know that from experience).
    Think back to when you were going through some bad experience, or time in your life. If your able to think back to it, that should mean you've gotten past it (and for me I know it was because someone showed they cared).
    In this world sadly there is so much hurting going on, so I firmly believe that its not a waste of time to try, you can make a persons day with a simple connection. If you have a smile then share it, and you can be the person to help someone.

Attraction

    Attraction is a funny thing, sometimes it comes at the oddest of times. It also seems to be very sudden, like out of the blue you'll see someone, and just get a feeling right then and there. Sometimes I don't think there is always a pattern either, or anything in common with the different people one person is attracted to. 

    You shouldn't base much on attraction because its not stable in my opinion. Sure you think your gonna like the person based on their looks, the way they act, or the personality that you see shine from them, but that's about it you don't see anything definite. 

     So what do you do about the attractions? Well I guess it depends on how attracted you are, there's no harm in simply trying to get closer to the person (just be careful). Other times its best to just leave the attraction to your fantasies, especially if your pretty sure nothing can come from it.

    People are attracted every day they can't help it, it doesn't mean they love that person per say, its just something about that person was enough to spark some interest lol.

Taking a risk, sometimes worth it

     It's kinda late as I'm writing this, and honestly even though I have a lot on my mind lately, today was a good day. 

     Those moments you realize your smarter, stronger, and braver than you think are probably some of the best moments you'll experience in this life. Sometimes it takes hearing something from someone important of that you've known awhile and trust, and sometimes it's just meeting someone new, and they don't have to say anything specific but just by being themselves I don't know makes things click.  When people respect you, care for you, and/or value you (I don't know about everyone else, but personally) it makes you feel like your doing things right. 

     Yes today I did hear some encouraging words from a good friend, and I got to talk to two specific new people, one listened to what I had to say, and the other just sincerely influenced me (and I hope that, that particular friendship goes somewhere, or even forms I guess).

    If anything today was filled with me trusting, or simply taking chances with people who I don't know, and it honestly eased my mind whether it was talked about or simply just meeting someone new. I think it broke down a few walls that I keep up, and I hope they continue to keep falling. (I do know I don't need to over expect anything, or get my hopes up, because it very well may be I read something out of nothing) but today showed me that sometimes when you take the risk, it's worth it in the end, so I'm gonna try to try more with others.

Time is fleeting

     Do you ever feel like time is on fast forward and your being pushed along watching things go by? I know I do ha. It seems like things speed up but you have no clue where it's going to drop you off (off it even will). Then when you think about the past, I mean really think about it, and all those memories come flooding in. The good, the bad, the ones you'd rather forget, and the ones you'll fight till the end to hold on to. 

    School season started once again and I've heard people say thier lives start once they are out. But I disagree, doesn't everything that has come to be mean anything? Or was it all for nothing? The past in my opinion is just as important as the future, so don't discredit yours. 

     And since time is fleeting, make sure you make the most of the present.