New Years Eve 2016

    Well new years eve is upon us once again and while there may be no fairy godmothers or wishing stars that will magically make 2017 a better year for us, that does not mean that we can't change things for the better in our lives. Sometimes we feel suck and want a way to break out of the life we are in, maybe we can't get past the people telling us we can never do more or go further, maybe we can't get past our limitations, who knows. However I'm living proof that if you don't like where your life is heading push back against what the world is saying and change things yourself. You can't wait on someone else to come along and do it for you.
    So while it is a cliche I do have some resolutions to make. Firstly I want to cut down or completely out on sodas. Second try to get in better shape and exercise even if it's just a little a day. Thirdly I wanna be more open and connect more wth people. A few small simple things but could change my life in big ways.
    So why do we seem to roll our eyes when we see  "New year new me"? its because a lot of people lose motivation early on new years though is a good night to try and make some changes but hey if you slip up along the way just pick up where you left off and keep going strong, and don't let people who ae happy being stuck hold you back!

Back from WDW (yes again lol!)

    So I just got back from Walt Disney World (Yes again ha!) and I have to say it was honestly fun quick trip. We flew down the 14th, hoping to save travel time and money..., but lol wasn't scheduled out the best and ended up adding about three to four hours to travel time. The flight down bother my ears pretty bad, thankfully once we landed they got better. We got to ride the magical express (a first for me it was pretty cool).
    It was an awesome time at disney during the Christmas season, we even went to the Christmas party which I hadn't been to in a long time, it's truly so worth it and in my opinion blows the halloween party out of the water! The 15th we spent the day at Magic Kingdom, and the evening attended the party. We met some cool characters including snow white and aurora they both had their boyfriends out for the party (never seen them before so that was cool!). I got to meet my favorite Peter Pan and very thankful it happened. At the party he was a roaming character so was sure if we'd get to find him and his christmas scarf he only wears during the parties!
    Getting home went pretty smoothly and i slept on the flight and my ears didn't even give me any problems! though it was a shock to get home and the weather difference lol!
     it was honestly a great time and perfect way to celebrate the christmas holidays! (can't wait to go back lol

dangers of alone

    You know being alone isn't a bad thing, it's also not what hurts people. In fact everyone needs alone time now and then to relax. In my opinion the damaging side of being alone, is when it comes after being used to not being alone, after trusting people and enjoying each other. To going from talking almost daily to going to no replies at the drop of the hat. Promises once made, now broken.
    The cycle of meeting people, learning about each other, trusting and caring for each other, then disappearing. That cycle plays out in everyones life at some point. However in some cases it happens again, again, and again. The cycle never seeming to break. This leads to doubts forming, trust issues, self esteem issues. For those cases I'm not really sure what can be done, because each time you try to reach out to someone new to make a new friend you take the risk. Really all any of us can do is be hopeful that this new encounter will prosper, and be thankful for the people we already have in our lives, even if we feel like we don't have that many. If you can say you have one person in your life that cares you are blessed.

obstacles? go around them.

    You know lately I've been pretty bored, honestly this past weekend I did nothing productive. It took an old show to remind me of a lesson. You see I was blaming the fact that the people I wanted to hang out with were busy, and I was using that as an excuse to not do anything all weekend. Which in the long run effected no one but myself.
    I was blaming my circumstances for my problems, when I could have done other thing instead. Honestly if you have obstacles blocking your path go around them. Don't just let them become an excuse to give up. So thanks to Sabrina the teenage witch for reminding me of that!