How you're seen

    Have you ever noticed how in our society if you don't look, or act a certain way people don't find you worthy. "Why does no one ever look at me like that?" We ask ourselves daily. I know personally that I'm smart, funny, and loyal to a fault. Yet in this day and time none of that matters. I'm not the one everyone swoons over, I'm not the one anyone envys, I'm the one that gets passed by again and again.

    It's easy to say looks aren't everything. They honestly aren't in the long run. But you can't say that looks don't hold power over people. Because they sadly hold a lot of influence over people. It's to the point where now people are setting themselves lower to other people. Or hurting themselves trying to improve thier image.

    Things need to change, but it's gonna take more than words it's gonna take more than a few actions

    Self image needs to be lowered on priority lists, because people are missing out on great relationships. Thankfully I have some selfless people in my life. But there is still a sting when trying to reach out and you get shut down just because of how you look.

    I guess if I could say anything it'd be give everyone a chance. You might regret not later on in life.

One of those days

    Sometimes we're all gonna have days that just don't go over to well. You know those days where you sorta hit your breaking point, and boil over. Honestly it's probably healthy especially if you're like me and tend to keep everything bottled up. Those freak outs are your bodies way of getting out all that bottled up emotion. However, we still have to deal with the aftereffect of our actions during the blow out. It's only natural when you're upset, and hurting to lash out at people.
    So if you upset anyone try to make amends, but wait until you're completely over your little episode just to be safe. If freezing someone out sounds like a really good idea, you probably aren't ready to reconcile quite yet. Also remember like I said at the beginning we all have those days, and eventually we will all have another. So don't let it get you too down when you boil over.

Tiniest of shards

    You know sometimes even the most optimistic, well put together person has thier bad times. Thinking back I'd have to say the people who look like the best probay have the most pulling them down. Our society has taught us to put on a show, and wear masks to hide what's really going on. It's seen as a sign of weakness. 

    It's the little things though that have the potential hurt us. The tiny shards that hold the power to break us. We can shrug off the big stuff, but when we are alone those shards can hit nerves or breaking points. 

    Those times are hard to get through, but it can be done. I just know that eventually to many of them can leave you feeling empty. I do believe that they come in phases, and during the inbetween things continue on normal and fine. 

    Just really all I can say is reach out to people, whether you think they need it or not.

Come and go

    Sometimes I wonder why some people come into our lives while some people disappear. Others become a part of you. Some friendships feel like they will last forever while others end way too fast. I've sadly learned that not every friendship is meant to last forever. However, what does last forever is the pain when that person is gone.

    This can be a hard lesson to learn, and even harder to adapt to once you've learned it. Losing someone is never easy, some are harder than others though. Once you know the pain of losing someone you might start to worry about the people who are left (especially if there's not many).simetimes losing someone can make you a little paranoid. Then you feel that you're losing something really important to you, and that freaks you out more, and then you try to hold on a little too tightly to them. When really you weren't ever losing them to begin with. I know it sounds crazy, (and insanely hard) but sometimes the best thing you can do is give people space. Let them come to you for a change.

    The bottom line is we've all gotta accept that people come and go from our lives, (and it's really hard to accept sometimes) but the people who want to stay will.